Archive for July, 2007

An Apology to the Mumsnet Membership

July 23rd, 2007 | By Ian in Just Life Really | 3 Comments »

I received this e-mail today from Mumsnet:

Hi there,
Congratulations on the imminent arrival and good luck with the next few weeks and months.

We’ve noticed you’ve been a bit prolific on our boards with regard to encouraging members onto a specific website - this is known as spamming and we’d be grateful if you’d not do it anymore as it irritates the membership.

Thanks for your understanding.

Yes, I have prolifically posted 3 times on 1 topic (which I confess, I did start) in 2 days asking whether it was common for husbands not to be allowed to stay with wives when being induced.

At the bottom of each of the 3 post I included my name and a link back to this blog. This is spamming and it makes me a very bad man.

I would like to sincerely apologise to all the irritated membership (Missus!) especially to the 240 members that chose to click through to my blog (as they’ve had to read this rubbish).

Sorry.

The Expectant Father Store

July 22nd, 2007 | By Ian in Just Life Really | 2 Comments »

Just a quick blog about blogging and a shameless promotion all at the same time.

I have changed the Expectant Father Store to show products from Amazon.co.uk. This makes it far more convenient for my UK readers to buy thousands of pounds worth of baby gear.

I’ve also changed some of the other adverts on this site which I’m informed are supposed to show products relating to the content. So far that doesn’t seem to be true but maybe you’re browsing this site and think: “I do want a Braun Tassimo Freshly Brewed Coffee System”. Who knows.

Anyway, back to the shopping.

Cheers, Ian.

Will This Waiting Never End? Of Course It Will…

July 22nd, 2007 | By Ian in Babies | No Comments »

So another day passes with out any baby action. We have had two bits of useful information today though.

Firstly, at Bernard’s puppy class today, we chatted to a Mid-wife who advised against settling for an induction and told us to try another sweep. As Mrs C knows what a sweep feels like and imagines that this will be so much very less bad (terrible grammar there I know) than being induced she’s booked herself in for another one tomorrow morning. Maybe we will crawl in under that Wednesday morning deadline.

The second piece of interesting information was from Mrs C mum, Big Ma A (as I have just christened her). She told Mrs C that Mrs C and her brothers were all 3 weeks late and all had to be induced. Had she mentioned this a few weeks ago all this waiting around might not have felt quite so excruciating.

Oh well, at least we know that baby’s coming out sooner or later.

Do Old Wives Tell Lies?

July 22nd, 2007 | By Ian in Babies | No Comments »

I’m sure we’ve all heard of them. Or we’ve heard of some of them at least, but here’s a few popular Old Wives Tales about how to induce labour:

  • Raspberry Leaf Tea
  • Caster Oil
  • Hot Curry
  • Long Walks
  • Reflexology
  • Sex

If I’m honest, in the early days of pregnancy I would simply have laughed these off as ridiculous and any results are purely coincidental. But as we’re now getting to the point where Mrs C might be induced in hospital, I’m more inclined to give them a go. And we have. Here’s how each one is supposed to help induce labour and our experiences:

Raspberry Leaf Tea

Raspberry leaf tea is thought to help soften the cervix and reduce the length of time women are in labour. As Wendy Hoyland explains on the Baby Centre Web site:

“In a study carried out in Sydney, Australia, 192 first-time mums were given at random either a 1.2g raspberry leaf tablet or a placebo twice a day from 32 weeks of pregnancy. The herb had no harmful effects on mother or baby, and those women who had taken raspberry leaf tablets were found to have a shorter second stage of labour and a lower rate of forceps delivery (19.3% versus 30.4%).”

Raspberry leaf tea should not be taken early on in the pregnancy (not until the last 2 months) due to the effect it has on the uterus but despite this only being one study it does seem to work.

Mrs C has only just started drinking raspberry leaf tea (maybe a month too late) but she’s enjoying it even if it does nothing for her labour.

Caster Oil

If you’re bunged up in the bowel; you cant beat a good dose of caster oil. This could be the reason why it helps women in labour. The emptying of the bowel is a sign that you are going into labour (as this give your baby a little more room when making his way to the exit).

There is also a school of thought that by putting your bowel into spasm, you can encourage your uterus to contract. A definite plus if you want to push a baby out.

The down side to Caster Oil is that most people think it has an unpleasant taste and after just one dose they can’t bring themselves to have another. Oh, and it makes you “evacuate the Bakerloo line” within 3 hours of taking it.

Mrs C hasn’t tried caster oil yet. I think that this will be a last gasp solution for her as even the thought of the taste is putting her off!

Hot Curry

Hot curry (in fact spicy food in general) is thought to work along the same lines as caster oil. Emptying your bowels and encouraging your uterus to contract.

Having a full stomach when going into labour can just cause vomiting; so timing that Chicken Biryani just right is all important.

Mrs C is a big fan of spicy food, and we’ve been eating quite a lot of curries recently - but obviously with no success.

Long Walks

Walking in labour is thought to help move the baby’s head down into a good birthing position. As you walk and your hips sway side-to-side, as well as the effects of gravity from stood up, the baby can move down into the opening in your pelvis.

An active first stage of labour is also said to reduce the total length of labour. This could be because walking and being upright encourages more blood to flow to your uterus make contractions stronger and more efficient.

This really seems to have an effect on Mrs C. Whenever we come back from a walk, she always seems to have spasms and mild cramps. I think we’ll be going round the park a few more times before Wednesday comes to see if this will make junior get a move on.

Reflexology

Although the thought that rubbing some ones foot in different place to cause a reaction else where in the body seems a little far fetched at first it does seem to generate genuine results (after all, putting someones fingers in cold water when they are sleeping can cause them to wet themselves).

There a many professional Reflexologists that will give foot massages specifically to help induce labour. A lot of these seem to focus on stimulating area on the foot related to the pituitary gland.

When Mrs C contacted a local Reflexologist she was told “It can help but I’m making no promises it will work”.

Even if it doesn’t induce labour, at least you get a nice foot massage.

Sex

Sex is actually scientifically proven to help labour. Semen contains prostaglandins which helps stimulate contractions. This may be a typical man thing to say, but I’m inclined to believe that this is the most likely to succeed. Science has proven it!

Your Experiences

Please feel free to let me know of your experiences by leaving a comments below.

Is This The Start?

July 21st, 2007 | By Ian in Babies | 1 Comment »

Still nothing to report really except that Mrs C has been having twinges for the last couple of days which I’m hoping are signs that natural labour is not too far away.

If I remember rightly, this is what the Midwife described as the cervix thinning after Mrs C had her sweep.

I’m praying that it is, and Mrs C will make it into natural labour before Wednesday and the induction.

Fingers crossed.

Still Nothing

July 20th, 2007 | By Ian in Babies | 2 Comments »

Sorry, no sign of Junior yet.

I am, however, in a bit of a rage about going to be induced. Not only will it not be at our chosen hospital, not only has it been moved forward a day but it seems I will only be allowed to see Mrs C during visiting hours and wont be allowed to stay with her until she enters “active labour”.

In essence this means I’ll have to drop her off at 7:30 in the morning and I wont be allowed back until 3pm. At 8pm, unless she is 3cm dilated or is having contraction less than 1 minute apart, I will have to leave again.

That is absolute madness! This is our first child, Mrs C is thoroughly nervous about being induced and I wont be allowed to stay with her?! I’m really very angry about this as it’s just making Mrs C even more worried about giving birth.

I’m not too sure what I’ll do when they tell me I have to leave either… what utterly ridiculous rule.